Financial debt worries can be a contributing factor in the break up of relationships but I guess I was just one of the lucky ones. A similar thing happened to me not that long ago and even now I am not over the full extent of its grip. To make matters worse, it was an insidious problem and took many years for it to make itself felt. Many people do not realize it, but as strange as it seems, 20,000 dollars of debt can sneak up on you. Fortunately I was lucky enough to find a company that could provide me with a consumer debt consolidation loan which made life much easier.